Irritated.....

Recently I have generally been irritated by my stimulator, no matter what program I use!

I tend to feel it a lot more than I used to, even on low settings, and it is really quite annoying. Because of the low frequencies I use, it feels like a heart beat or pulse in the back of head! It is pretty disconcerting. I used to get this if I rested my head against something that pressed on the lead but now it happens when my head is not resting on anything at all!

I have also noticed that the left end of the lead seems to stick out more than it used to. I'm not sure if this is due to weight loss! Can you lose weight on the back of your neck??

I am still having the battery flipping issue too. 

I am awaiting a phone consultation from the consultant on 14th October. I guess this will be to discuss the issues with the battery and where to go next. I am Hong though that Mike from St Jude's had filled him in on the potential end of the line of settings to try with my stim, as I feel that this is also a big issue that I need to know what options are available ....or not!!

A couple of weeks back I had a coupe of days where I had weakness in my right hand. I have no idea if it is related to my ON but it seems pretty coincidental. I basically went to write something down and I couldn't physically hold the pen with any control. I was unable to write properly and my hand would spasm at points, making my handwriting look all over the place. I continually tried to corvette this issue through practise, but I had little fine motor control for almost 12 hours!! My hand and arm felt heavy and odd and I couldn't generally control it. It was so strange, but it hasn't happened since. 

I have been experiencing higher pain levels for a longer period of time than usual and throughout this have had extreme dizziness to combat too.

The programs I have set on my stim at the moment don't appear to be helping in any way. I either can't cope with the pulse or it is pinchy or too strong, or it is just my everyday program that doesn't break through the worse pain levels. I have usually been riding it out and it drops in intensity within a few days, by this time it hasn't and has lasted well over a week at this pain level!

Lack of understanding

Recently it has become more and more evident that so many people, despite all my efforts, just have no understanding about ON!

My friends who ask and listen have a deep knowledge of the effects as well as how my life has changed BUT it seems that my employer doesn't want to do so!

At the moment I am not coping well with full time teaching. It is draining and exhausting, causing me higher pain levels and more persistent dizziness. This happens in class frequently and it is become an issue.

A month ago I mentioned that I needed support to manage full time until the end of the school year, especially with the added expectation of school reports that need to be completed. It has taken until now for someone to get back to me about this and in the meantime I have suffered such stress that I have been in tears almost every day. I even went to a member of senior management and told them this. 

In the meeting I made it clear how unsupported I feel and the response was "but you've had a phased return!" Do they not recognise that this only helps you back to work not to stay at work!

I truly feel that this condition is so hard to get across to people because they are not interested, probably because you look "well". There are other members of staff with other more well known chronic conditions, who get support to manage at school, whilst I get nothing!

Sadly, I know I am going to have to see my GP and get a reduced hours sick note in place as soon as possible, ready for September. This is the only way I can get across that I am not coping!

I guess I might have to admit to myself that I might not ever manage full time teaching again, but I am not ready to totally rule that out just yet! Partly because of routine and stubbornness but also because I don't know what else I would do! 

I am sure that a different job would be more manageable with ON but I just don't know!!!